Signs i am dating a sociopath
Could there be an underlying neurological cause for the violating or dangerous behaviors? Individuals with personality disorders have difficulty relating to others, resulting in rocky relationships.
There are some with these conditions that have a high potential to traumatize their mates due to their symptom profile (Mager, Bresin, and Verona, 2014; Lawson and Brossart, 2013).
They lie when they’d make out better telling the truth.
If you get a chill down your spine when they look at you, pay attention.
They want to move in together or get married quickly.
They want you to feel sorry for their abusive childhood, psychotic ex, incurable disease or financial setbacks.
Sociopaths lie and cheat as easily as you and I breathe.
It is not uncommon for individuals who have never been involved in this type of romance to wonder if their partner has a disorder.
They’re smooth talkers, always have an answer, never miss a beat.
They figure out what you want, make themselves into that person, then tell you that your relationship was “meant to be.” 3. If you feel intense attraction, if your physical relationship is unbelievable, it may be their excess testosterone.
They never assume responsibility for their actions. You never know from one minute to the next if they are telling the truth or not and when you try to call them out on it, well, they insist they aren’t lying and blame your suspicions on you. They meet you, like you, tell you that you are everything they have been looking for in a partner, they sweep you off your feet and want to either move in or get married. So much so that sometimes you feel like you are in a deep passionate love movie. They say all the right things and give you complete undivided attention. Beware, they are so charming it’s almost unnatural. If something terrible is happening, it’s happening to them and it’s all about them, even if it isn’t. The once passionate and non stop attention they use to shower you with has now turned to them almost completely ignoring you and acting like they are bored with you. They rarely pay any attention to you these days but don’t try to bring it up in conversation. It’s up to you to change things if you don’t like it, not them. You were once a robust, fun and outgoing person and now you feel like a zombie.
If they need someone to blame for something, chances are it will be you. They will manipulate you with the story of how they were abandoned or nobody loved them. Their main goal is to lure you in and make sure you never think of leaving. One minute you think they love you, the next minute they are online flirting with an ex and then telling you to stop being jealous and accuse you of being ridiculous. A body, a shell, no emotions and your heart is null and void.